5 Secrets for Asking for a Referral - Do What Bill Did

By Julie Hansen

I bought a new phone last week. I had no intention of buying a new phone. I simply wanted Verizon to please, PLEASE fix my Blackberry so that it would ring every time I received a call. Not every third or fourth time, like it was currently doing.

The salesperson who waited on me, lets call him Bill, listened carefully to my needlessly lengthy explanation of the problem and exhibited great patience when his test calls came through perfectly (of course). He gave me two options: replace the phone OR upgrade to a new one. I quickly shot down the upgrade. I was in a hurry and the thought of hanging out at the Verizon store for more than a few minutes gave me a headache. Besides, I liked my phone just fine, thank you. Except for that pesky habit of not ringing. Bill nodded, asking me how I used my phone, what features I liked, what features I didn’t need, etc. Despite my grudgingly supplied answers, Bill gently and persistently led me to the conclusion that I needed a new phone.

The interesting part of this story is not that I got a new phone. It’s what happened after that. Bill took exceptional care of me throughout the entire process, updating me on the data transfer, preparing my rebate so all it needed from me was a stamp and setting up my email. When I thanked him (and this is where it gets interesting) Bill did something very unusual. Something I’ve never seen any other phone salesperson do. He asked me for a referral. Bill takes great pride in taking excellent care of his customers so that they will send referrals his way. “Just like in your business,” Bill said, slipping a few business cards into my bag after pointing out his cell number in case I had any questions about my new phone. I walked away racking my brain for the names of people that I could refer to Bill.

Secret Referrals
Even though sales is our business, we don’t always think to give referrals to other salespeople for certain types of products or services. Some businesses obviously thrive on referrals, like hair stylists, financial advisers, accountants, real estate brokers. But there are a lot of business people that benefit from referrals that we don’t readily think of, like car washes, insurance providers, utilities and of course, retail stores. If we as sellers don’t recognize that these businesses operate on referrals, what are the odds that the average customer does? How many of you are mistakenly assuming that people know you want referrals? Like Verizon, is it the best kept secret in the mall?

When to ask for a referral:

After you’ve provided excellent service (as Bill did) most people will be delighted to help you out. Something in our nature triggers the desire to reciprocate: “Thank you.” “Oh no, thank you.” “No really, thank YOU.” By not allowing someone to return a favor, you are denying them one of life’s great pleasures. Here are some tips to increasing your odds of getting a good referral.

How to ask for a referral:

1. Be specific. The more specific you are about the type of referrals you want, the easier you make your client’s job. Asking him to recommend your services as a broker is very different from asking him to recommend your services to anyone who might be getting married, having a child or moving within the next year.
   
2. Do your research. If possible, find out which associations or groups that your client is a member of. Let him know which of his associates is a good fit for you and why.
   
3. Promote your work. If a client sees that you are working hard and earning more business, she will feel more confident recommending you to others. Don’t fly under the radar. Keep your clients up to date on your activities and successes.
   
4. Do amazing work. Not occasionally. Not most of the time. Do amazing work every time.
   
5. Show appreciation. Don’t forget to thank your client for the referral even if nothing comes from it. Especially if nothing comes from it. You don’t want your client to feel like you’re disappointed if his lead doesn’t pan out. Clearly express your gratitude for each and every referral—no matter what the outcome.

As for me? I always appreciate a good referral. And I’m still looking for a few names to send to Bill. Anybody need a new phone?

Julie Hansen is a Sales Consultant, Speaker and Professional Actor who shows salespeople how to use proven acting techniques to get in front of key decision makers, communicate more persuasively and dramatically increase sales. Look for her new book “ACT Like a Sales Pro” in August. For more sales tips or information on having Julie speak or work with your group go to: www.actingforsales.com or email her.